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What A Loving Man Looks Like--
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Of course, they all look different on the outside, but they all look almost identical on the inside.
They are not prideful or boastful. They are very humble and extremely grateful.
They won’t ever suggest that anyone is less valuable than they are.
They will usually go far out of their way to embrace and make sure that those who the world considers less valuable feel more valuable in their presence.
They won’t just hold the door for you, they’ll hold the door for ev
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23rd Jun 2025
What Happens When We Sin?
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Sin is a seed. When I sin, I plant that seed. After planting that seed, if I want to grow that seed, I have to give it my time and attention, water it and nourish it and encourage it to grow in my life.
If I allow the sin to grow long enough, the sin will reproduce of its own kind. In enough time, sin will take over a whole field—my whole life will be filled with sin.
That’s why it is so important for us to repent. That’s why God wants us to repent. God helps
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23rd Jun 2025
How to Overcome Insecurity
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The world will tell us the problem with insecurity is that we don’t think enough of ourselves. So, we should think more of ourselves and that we should learn to love ourselves.
I do not believe that is true. The most secure people I have ever met in my life are the most humble people I have met. They don’t think less of themselves, but they do think of themselves less. That’s what true humility is.
They have learned that the only security any of us have is in Christ
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2nd Jun 2025
How Do We Love Someone We Don’t Trust?
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This is not an easy question. The first thing we have to remember is that we can love people who we don’t even like. We don’t have to feel love for someone in order to love them because loving them is doing what is truly best for them without regard for ourselves.
The first thing we have to do if someone has been unfaithful to us—it is our responsibility, we get saddled with it—it may not be fair, but it is just the truth that we have a responsibility to deter
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21st Apr 2025
How to Know Someone’s Heart--
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Maybe the truth is that only God really knows someone’s heart;
How do we know our own hearts? Probably only God really knows our own hearts.
But in this life, we have a responsibility to discern other people’s hearts and our own hearts.
I used to think it was just as simple as watching what people did to discern their hearts because I thought what they did would reveal their hearts.
But I’ve learned that’s not necessarily the truth. It’s not what people
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21st Apr 2025
Should We Demand Our Children Respect Us?
I think the answer is yes, we should demand that our children respect us.
I think the more important question is: Why should we demand that our children respect us?
Even the Bible says children should honor their mother and their father. But why does it say that? It doesn’t say that so that the mother and the father get honored and respected. The Bible says it that so the children’s lives will be blessed.
If we punish our children for not respecting us and we don’t
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2nd Apr 2025
What to do When the People You Love Run Over You
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I received a great direct message from someone recently. The message read: “I get it. Love does what is best For others without regard for ourselves. But what do we do when the people you love consistently run over us or take advantage of us?”
The best example I can give you for that is my love for my children. The first thing I want them to know is that I love them with all my heart. The second thing I want them to know is that I want them to live a loving life. Bec
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31st Mar 2025
Is It Possible to Love Someone, But Not Like Them?
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Thank God, the answer is yes, it is possible The Bible tells us we are to love even our enemies.
What I used to do is sit around and try to drum up a feeling of love for someone I didn’t’ even like. It was impossible.
I felt guilty for not feeling good about someone, because I didn’t feel like I was loving them because I didn’t like them or didn’t like what they were doing. We need to sit on the jury on our own life.
We can’t just not like people b
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24th Mar 2025
Should We Trust Our Feelings?
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I would say that God gave us our feelings for a reason. I think all feelings are valid. In other words, we feel what we feel because we believe what we believe.
The problem is that our feelings may be based on a lie. In other word, if what we believe is not the truth, then our feelings can easily mislead us. If we just follow our feelings wherever they take us, they can wreck our lives.
What we should do is seek the truth regardless of how we feel. As we find the truth and we follow
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24th Mar 2025
What Is Mercy?
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A lot of people on television right now are talking about mercy.
This conversation leads us to wonder: What is mercy and what is merciful?
I would say that if you remove the truth from what you call mercy, it’s not mercy at all. Nothing is more merciful than the truth because truth is best for everyone.
So, people who say they are being merciful but they are actually removing the truth from their mercy are using mercy to get what they want.
That’s not merciful at all.
Thi
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20th Mar 2025