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The Harshest Thing You Can Ever Do To Anyone

The Harshest Thing You Can Ever Do To Anyone

Posted by Kenny Vaughan on 21st Jul 2022

The Harshest Thing You Can Ever Do to Anyone


For some of you, if I said this, you would not want to listen. But if you listen, this can change your life forever. It’s so counterintuitive because we have been sold a lie for so long. The harshest thing you can ever do to someone else is to teach them to love themselves or to encourage them to embrace themselves, to be centered on self…to pursue self-esteem. You see, self is the problem, it is not the solution. Jesus never taught self-love. He taught self-denial. It’s the psychologist that teaches self-love. And what’s crazy is that self-love is the root of the vast majority of mental illness. Still, a psychologist will teach you to love yourself. You know that’s not right, and I know it, too. If you think about it and you check your heart, you know that self-love is selfish; and that love is self-less.

Philippians 2:3-4 

Do nothing out of selfish ambition, but in humility consider others above yourself. Trust God’s Word no matter what. Keep your eyes on the horizon.

If this doesn’t make sense, read my book,“The Right Fight: How To Live a Loving Life.” It’s all in there.I spent seven years writing it. It will help you set your life on a path of fruitfulness and show you how to live a loving and courageous life instead of a life driven by fear. Order the book on Amazon and at .

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