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Why you don't have to know your purpose to find it

I often say the little things are the big things. Every decision we make from what seems little to what seems big is one more step towards or away from our purpose. The good news is we are never more than the next right decision from turning everything around and heading back to what God has for us. Our purpose is to live a loving life and we have unique gifts to help us fulfill exactly what God created us to do. Nothing in this world is more fulfilling than being where God called us. It’s never …
30th Jan 2020 Kenny Vaughan

How to know if you love someone or you just want them to love you

Loving to be loved it not love at all...it’s manipulation. Love requires sacrifice and a willingness to do what you believe is “truly” best for the other person. When we really love then the fruit of love (the feeling of love) will take care of itself. Wrote about this extensively in “The Right Fight” how to live a loving life. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not e …
30th Jan 2020 Kenny Vaughan

Have you read it?

If you have read “The Right Fight” and are willing to share a few sentences that may encourage someone else to read it please share them. We will pick a couple to put on the back cover of the book for the next printing. Whether you share anything or not I am forever grateful to you all!!! Your encouragement and conviction has helped me become a better father, husband, friend and man. I don’t think you could ever understand how much your comments mean to …
4th Nov 2019 Kenny Vaughan

How to know an expert when you see one

It’s incredibly important that we depend on dependable people when we need help-and we all need help. When I’m looking for a true expert, I’m looking for someone who will ask me lots of questions and not assume anything is true....even if they are sure they already know the answer. I’m looking for someone who is less worried about how smart they appear, and more worried about helping make sure I understand the simplicity of their expertise. I’m looking for someone who is more worried about findi …
30th Oct 2019 Kenny Vaughan

How to make sure you don’t Labor in vain

Forever I struggled with this scripture....Matthew 7:22-23 ,”On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.”Then one day I stumbled on this scripture, 1 John 4:7-8, “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not l …
29th Oct 2019 Kenny Vaughan