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Why you don’t have to know your purpose to find it
I often say the little things are the big things. Every decision we make from what seems little to what seems big is one more step towards or away from our purpose. The good news is we are never more than the next right decision from turning everything around and heading back to what God has for us. Our purpose is to live a loving life and we have unique gifts to help us fulfill exactly what God created us to do. Nothing in this world is more fulfilling than being where God called us. It’s never
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5th Mar 2020
Why you don't have to know your purpose to find it
I often say the little things are the big things. Every decision we make from what seems little to what seems big is one more step towards or away from our purpose. The good news is we are never more than the next right decision from turning everything around and heading back to what God has for us. Our purpose is to live a loving life and we have unique gifts to help us fulfill exactly what God created us to do. Nothing in this world is more fulfilling than being where God called us. It’s never
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30th Jan 2020
How to know if you love someone or you just want them to love you
Loving to be loved it not love at all...it’s manipulation. Love requires sacrifice and a willingness to do what you believe is “truly” best for the other person. When we really love then the fruit of love (the feeling of love) will take care of itself. Wrote about this extensively in “The Right Fight” how to live a loving life. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not e
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30th Jan 2020
How to know an expert when you see one
It’s incredibly important that we depend on dependable people when we need help-and we all need help. When I’m looking for a true expert, I’m looking for someone who will ask me lots of questions and not assume anything is true....even if they are sure they already know the answer. I’m looking for someone who is less worried about how smart they appear, and more worried about helping make sure I understand the simplicity of their expertise. I’m looking for someone who is more worried about findi
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30th Oct 2019
How to know the difference between your will and God's will
If you are not sure what God wants you to do next, stay where you are but don’t just stay. Wherever you are, God’s will is that you live a loving life. That you give all you have in every circumstance and that you remain grateful. If you’re in darkness, be a light in the darkness. It takes Jesus in you to do that. There is no job that is not honorable. It’s people who are honorable or not. We are honorable when we honor God and others, not when others honor us. God will get you to His will for y
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14th Oct 2019