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When a person in their anger and their rudeness takes something from us or hurts you—we think we have to figure out how to get what they took from us back. So, we go and we take back more than they took from us to begin with. The only problem is that when we do this, we can’t remain patient. We can’t remain kind, truthful, protective of others and trusting. We give up those things which help us live a loving life, just to get revenge. Revenge may fill our basket and fill our hearts, but it empti …

Dear Jordan Peterson WATCH VIDEO Congratulations, sir. What an honor, really, that psychology actually want to revoke your license. Minor psychologists feed off the flesh of hurting people. You are a loving man. You are seeking the truth. You are turning the lights on in the darkness And they are scared to death of that. And honestly, they should be. I say, take whatever training it is they want to force you to take to keep your license. But demand it’s all video recorded. Th …

My Biggest Fear My biggest fear is that I mislead you. That I wake up one day and realize that I have misled thousands of people on social media and I have misled thousands of people by writing a book not based on truth. Even worse is that I misled my own family, because I didn’t believe the truth. What has concerned me the most is that I have a hard time finding any social media influencers that I agree with and any modern authors I agree with. If you think I am wrong, please tell …

Insecurity Is Not Your Problem Your problem is believing the lie that you should be secure. You know you’re not, but you are told that you should be. So, you fight to be something that you can’t be, and that’s a trap. Nothing concerns me more than someone who believes they are totally secure in and of themselves. They are foolish, because they are just like you and me. They are not really secure, either. You can’t manufacture security. The only place we find security is in Christ. Whe …

Why People ‘Fall Out of Love’?People don’t really fall in and out of love. Someone chooses to love so the feeling of love is there; or they fail to love, so the feeling of love dies and goes away.When two people are loving each other, they are both patient, kind, truthful, protective of others, trusting, hopeful and persevering. They are choosing to love and they are choosing to act on love.The result is the fruitfulness, the feeling of love in both of their lives. We say they “fell in love” or …

The Tool Used Most Often to Manipulate You…is empathy.There are only two ways to manipulate people. One is you terrify them. You make them afraid of you so they will follow your fear. The other is an excessive amount of never-ending empathy. So, they will follow their own fear.What they are trying to do is keep on taking you back to your hurt so you stay offended and afraid.All this because fear-led people are easily manipulated. When we are afraid and we are led by fear, we just want to get out …

Why I Almost Choked the Chicken LadyThis is a true story. It’s funny. But it changed my life.Me, my wife Tammie and our three kids—when they were younger t—are getting ready to go on vacation. Tammie and I had just finished packing for us and the three kids. That’s a whole other story, in itself!We get everyone in the car and we decide to get something to eat on our way out of town—stop at a local chicken restaurant and order something at the drive-thru.If you’ve never done that—know it takes a …

Why Hurting People Hurt PeopleNot all hurt people hurt people. The most loving people who you will ever meet in your life are the people who have been hurt many, many times, but they have found the courage to love through the hurt. So, love has grown stronger in their lives.A loving person chooses to be the seven things love is: patient, kind, trusting, persevering, hopeful, truthful, and protective of others. This is the fruitfulness of their life.It is inevitable, as you know, that someone wi …

A Few Tips for Surviving DepressionDepression is not just some bad mood we get into that we can snap ourselves out of.We don’t get into depression in a hurry, and we usually don’t get out of it in a hurry.Depression isn’t a sin. Depression normally comes whenever some major fear comes into our life, or trauma or loss or something else that shakes our world….We become totally consumed with that problem. We give it 100 percent of our undivided attention. Not just for days and weeks, but for weeks …

If Your Goal Is To Be Happy, You Will Fail…To LoveBecause loving doesn’t always make us happy.Happiness is like a fruit that comes and goes with the seasons.Love is like a root that is here to stay.So, if my goal is to be happy, I am going to fail to love you, because sometimes loving you won’t make me happy.If my goal is to love, I am going to love you--happy or not.This is why so many major social media influencers will tell you your new goal should be happiness. They also tell you that you ca …