Insecurity Is Not Your Problem Your problem is believing the lie that you should be secure. You know you’re not, but you are told that you should be. So, you fight to be something that you can’t … read more

Why People ‘Fall Out of Love’?People don’t really fall in and out of love. Someone chooses to love so the feeling of love is there; or they fail to love, so the feeling of love dies and goes away.When … read more

The Tool Used Most Often to Manipulate You…is empathy.There are only two ways to manipulate people. One is you terrify them. You make them afraid of you so they will follow your fear. The other is an … read more

Why I Almost Choked the Chicken LadyThis is a true story. It’s funny. But it changed my life.Me, my wife Tammie and our three kids—when they were younger t—are getting ready to go on vacation. Tammie … read more

Why Hurting People Hurt PeopleNot all hurt people hurt people. The most loving people who you will ever meet in your life are the people who have been hurt many, many times, but they have found the co … read more