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What is a Hardened Heart?

The idea that hardening our heart will protect us is not wise, and it’s not the easy way out. It may be easier right now, but like all fearful decisions, it brings immediate relief with the cost of delayed destruction. We must get in the game to fight to live a loving life. We can’t just follow our feelings because they lure us to our own demise. It’s not easy to keep living a loving life when we feel like love got us hurt. The truth is, love never hurts anyone. Selfishness and fear do that. 1 C …
14th Oct 2019 Kenny Vaughan

What to do if you love someone who doesn’t love you

Loving someone who won’t love us is always painful. Actually, anyone not loving us is painful. We can pretend we don’t care, but that is just a fearful response to the fact we do care. Whatever you do, don’t harden your heart. That’s the trap of hurt. Loving heals us from hurt. When we harden our own hearts, we prevent healing and live a life trapped by the hurt we are trying to avoid. If someone not loving you hurts then thank God. It means you’re whole and you’re what God made you to be. Have …
5th Sep 2019 Kenny Vaughan